Homeschooling Anyone?
If you surf the Christian blogs on the internet, you will find that homeschooling is very popular among many conservative Christian families. And before I go any further, I want to make it very clear for those who may have weak analytical and critical thinking skills, that this is not a post against homeschooling. I want to explore the subject and look at it from a different perspective. Please feel free to post comments, even if you don’t agree but I will not engage in any long drawn out arguments. (They can end in anger! Not good!) If we don’t agree, we don’t agree. Deal with it.
I don’t blame any parent, especially Christian parents, for wanting to pull their kids out of the American public school system. The public schools have stopped nearly all funding for music and arts, blatantly promote liberal thinking and politics, push the homosexual agenda, pass out condoms like candy and tell the kids how to use them, and they seem to be against anything that remotely resembles conservative values.
So middle America has three options: pull their kids out and put them in private schools, (which are usually expensive) set them up at the kitchen table with their textbooks, or fight a system which won’t change until their kids are probably finished with college and by then it will be too late; they will be running around with rings in their noses and have probably lost their virginity.
Because the system cannot be changed quickly, parents opt for the cheapest solution, homeschooling. Ardent mothers quit their jobs and head home to brush up on their teaching skills. Proverbs 31 will need to be redefined to fit in, "She teaches calculus." It's a little scary to me but hey, it's not my kids.
Many Christians now are calling for a complete “flight” from public schools. I often wonder why Christians, whose founding fathers started the whole business of America and free education, don’t stand up and take back the public school system. I mean, don’t American Christians have just as much of a right to have their children educated in this country as much as a homosexual couple’s child?
Why do American Christians seem opposed to engage in the secular culture and having their voices heard on this topic?
Do we, as Christians really want to create a counter culture or “ghetto” to live in? What’s next? Moving to Montana and making it Christianland?
My hats are off to those who want to go thru the arduous process of homeschooling. I know many of the moms are desperate to find a way to raise their children in a safe environment and make healthy choices for them.
But I will wave an even bigger hat at all the people who are committed to deal with the system as it is and attempt to improve it. The American public school system is a mission field that needs workers!
Personally, I have decided not to homeschool my children. I am praying that God will provide funds for me to send them to a private Christian school. If I do not have the extra money, then they will have to go to public schools. That is my choice. I don’t feel I am qualified to teach school subjects at a level that a student deserves. I want my kids to go to college and not major in domestic skills. I also feel strongly that a child needs to know what the difference is in regards to a relationship between a parent who disciplines them and has the final authority over their lives and a teacher who is an instructor that will guide them in school subjects.

6 Comments:
Good post. Agreed.
I was wondering, did you intentionally spell 'extravagant' wrong? You have it typed 'extravagent' and I wasn't sure whether or not you were aware. Just thought I'd let you know.
By the way, were you homeschooled? I'm assuming not.
No I wasn't homeschooled and evidentally they spell it differently in England. My dictionary is British English! :)
Strange, I have both and I just check my British English and is say 'extravagant' is spelled with three A's too.
I believe that the origonal medieval latin phrase was also spelled 'extravagant' (with is derived from from 'extravagari') Maybe I'm wrong though. :checks dictionary and latin book: Nope, that is what they say too.
Here is the excerpt from my British English and my American English dictionary.
British:
extravagant |ɪkˌstravəg(ə)nt| |ɛk-| adjective
lacking restraint in spending money or using resources : it was rather extravagant to buy both
• costing too much money
• exceeding what is reasonable or appropriate; absurd : extravagant claims for its effectiveness.
• excessively elaborate in style, speech, or action : large, beautiful, extravagant paintings.
DERIVATIVES extravagantly adverb ORIGIN late Middle English (in the sense [unusual, abnormal, unsuitable] ): from medieval Latin extravagant- ‘diverging greatly,’ from the verb extravagari, from Latin extra- ‘outside’ + vagari ‘wander.’
New Oxford Dictionary
American:
Extravagant (ek strav'ə gənt) adj.
Given to lavish or imprudent expenditure: extravagant members of the imperial court.
Exceeding reasonable bounds: extravagant demands. See Synonyms at excessive.
Extremely abundant; profuse: extravagant vegetation.
Unreasonably high; exorbitant: extravagant fees.
Archaic. Straying beyond limits or bounds; wandering.
[Middle English, unusual, rambling, from Old French, from Medieval Latin extrvagns, extrvagant- present participle of extrvagr, to wander : Latin extr, outside; see extra- + Latin vagr, to wander.]
American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language 2000
Wild Child,
Hi!! I’m 14yrs old ((yes, I’m home-schooled)) and I just want to kind of present my views on home-schooling. :o)
Well, I went to pubic school until 3rd grade and then, my parents took my sister and me out of public school because of various issues ((some of which were pertaining to the teachers refusing to stop reading Harry Potter books to the classes)). My mom was very apprehensive about home-schooling, feeling that she was not cut out for it, but God really put it on her heart that this was what we needed to do.
Well, we’ve been home-schooling now for about 5 years, and I must say, I believe my mom made the right choice. My sister and I are learning so much more than we did in public school, especially since our mom can choose different levels of curriculum that will challenge us the most. And about parents not being qualified to teach, part of home-schooling is learning to teach yourself!! Now I know that might sound odd, but my sister and I do quite a few subjects on our own and I feel it is really going to benefit us in the long run when we have to study in college!! It has even helped me learn more self-discipline; without a teacher standing over my shoulder telling me what to do, I have to learn to prioritize and get things done. I’m not saying my mom just lets us loose ((she does make sure we stay on track)), but we are learning “to learn on our own” which will really benefit us in the future.
We are also not distracted by other kids who are not well behaved ((not that we’re angels; believe me, we have started joking and losing track of time, or starting marker fights)). :o) But I think it’s easier to concentrate.
I have also found that home-schooling has improved my relationship with my family. I know most people think that home-schooled kids become socially deficient, but we really don’t!! And my sister and I have grown so close over the years!! When we were in public school, the peer pressure really separated us and we fought just about 24/7!! But we are really learning to appreciate and care for each other. She has become my best friend!! ((Psalm 133))
Another thing is, children are very impressionable. They look up to adults and they are influenced by what they see in others. So when you stick them in a public school with all of the wrong kind of influences, they will be affected by them. Now a Christian school might solve this problem, but I still believe that it’s good for the parents to be with their kids at that age. Proverbs 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it.” So I see home-schooling as a time for parents to train their children to face all of the obstacles in the world and prepare them to stand strong in their faith.
You said, “I want my kids to go to college and not major in domestic skills”. Well, I don’t know about many other home-schooled kids, but both my sister and I plan on going to college. We aren’t really majoring in domestic skills, although that wouldn’t be wrong; ((read Titus 2:3-5)). Home-schooling is still an education, just with benefits. :o) And one of those benefits is learning home-making skills, but those skills are useful for our future ((whether either of us get married or not)).
You also said, “I also feel strongly that a child needs to know what the difference is in regards to a relationship between a parent who disciplines them and has the final authority over their lives and a teacher who is an instructor that will guide them in school subjects.” Our mom kind of transitions over to ‘teacher’ when we are doing school, so we still know how to treat and listen to a teacher. ((Plus, I take piano and guitar lessons, so I still have various teacher)). :o)
And I understand what you mean about public schools being a mission field, but I believe kids must first be grounded in the Word before they can sufficiently stand strong against the deceptions of the world and Satan.
Well, that’s about it!! Sorry if I rambled and sorry if I offended anyone!! I just really want others to understand home-schooling!! Let me know what you think!! :o)
Hi Wild Child,
You seem to not want to homeschool because you don't think the quality of education is high enough. Is that right? Because I know several people who were home-schooled "the whole way" and did great in college, being straight-A students. And their moms were not brilliant either. So, I think that you would be capable home-schooling your kids.
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